Robert Smith quote

"There were only two times in my life when I've actually felt down about things and gotten myself into a full mental mess. One of the times was in 1982. I had a horrible time for a few months and felt pretty desperate. Then again in 1984, for various reasons, not all of them within my control. Since then, I just wander in and out of black moods."

Robert Smith

Born: April 21, 1959

Occupation: Musician

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I'd rather spend my time looking at the sky than listening to Whitney Houston.

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I've always spent more time with a smile on my face than not, but the thing is, I don't write about it.

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Refusing to grow up is like refusing to accept your limitations. That's why I don't think we'll ever grow up.

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But everyone I know reaches a point where they throw out their arms and go beserk for a while; otherwise you never know what your limits are. I was just trying to find mine.

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It's only people that aren't goths that think the Cure are a goth band.

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I do a job I really, really love and I kind of have fun with. People think you can't be grown up unless you're moaning about your job.

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I think the rock'n'roll myth of living on the edge is a pile of crap.

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Sometimes I'll get to the end of a song, open my eyes and there's all these faces peering at me. It's quite horrifying.

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I had no desire to be famous; I just wanted to make the greatest music ever made. I didn't want anyone to know who I was.

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My whole life I've played music for my own personal enjoyment and the idea of it becoming a machine or a business is just horrible.

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I have never liked Morrissey, and I still don't. I think it's hilarious, actually, what things I've heard about him, what he's really like, and his public persona is so different. He's such an actor.

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No, come to think of it, I don't think the Cure will end, but I can make up an ending if you want me to.

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The idea of reinvention has always seemed bizarre to me.

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You don't really know a song until you play it live.

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Each time I play a song it seems more real.

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I lose myself in music because I can't be bothered explaining what I feel to anyone else around me.

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If any of our songs ever did make it on the top ten, I'd disband the group immediately.

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Performing doesn't come that naturally to me, even though I've done it for years.

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When we started I wasn't the singer. I was the drunk rhythm guitarist who wrote all these weird songs.

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I've never regretted not having children. My mindset in that regard has been constant. I objected to being born, and I refuse to impose life on someone else.

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I honestly don't class myself as a songwriter. I've got 'musician' written on my passport. That's even funnier.

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I look thuggish when I shave my head and wear big boots. I walk into a newsagent and people think I'm going to jump the counter.

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I never liked Queen. I can honestly say I hated Queen and everything that they did.

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I don't dislike my peers because they're still around and remind me of what I'm doing. I never liked them anyway. I never liked U2, the things they've done over the years.

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Anyone can rehearse and play constantly any song in the world.

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I am very self-conscious a lot of the time.

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I became an adult in an extreme way. I was recently sorting some old photographs and I found another.

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I don't want The Cure to fizzle out doing 45-minute shows of greatest hits. That would be awful for our legacy.

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I still frequent my parents' house. I go there to escape, back to the bedroom that I grew up in. Just to sit there and feel small.

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I think that if you become a parent, you stop being a child, and your position in relation to your parents changes.

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I think, at heart, unless you discover faith in something else, something other, it's very hard to shake the thing that you're adrift alone.

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I wouldn't want to think people doted on us, hung on every word, or wanted to look like us.

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I write with a pen and paper. Never on a laptop.

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I'm not a morose person; it's just that my best songs reflect on the sadder aspects of life.

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In some cases, I quite like irritating people who need to be irritated.

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It's really easy to slide into a depression fueled by the pointlessness of existence.

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Living, it's awful for me.

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Nobody notices me. Nobody thinks I'm me. But then I look less like me than most of the people coming to our concerts.

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Perhaps not as badly applied and not as obvious, but for thousands of years, people have worn makeup on stage.

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Reading is something I've really missed, not being able to enter people's worlds.

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There's no hope of me becoming completely relaxed on stage. If I did, I'd sit down and doze off.

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When you're on stage, the real world just drops away for that time. It's pretty intense.

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Whenever I'm home, I haven't got any makeup on. But even in the studio, before I do vocals, I put makeup on.

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You can't drink on an eight hour flight, pass out, and then go onstage... well you can, but then you're Spandau Ballet.

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Both me and my wife's extended family all live within a 50-mile radius. Like me, a lot of them did time in London then started drifting back to the countryside and the sea. Perhaps it's a homing instinct.

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Every animal would rather die themselves than lose their offspring. But it's just genes, isn't it? All of our existence is spent worrying about the next generation, but we don't actually seem to get anywhere.

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Everything I do has the tinge of the finite, of my own demise. At some point you either accept death or you just keep pushing it back as you get older and older. I've accepted it.

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I hardly ever listen to any of our old stuff now. Once the songs have been recorded and put on to vinyl they become someone else's entertainment, not mine.

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