Emma Thompson quote

"But when I lose my temper, I find it difficult to forgive myself. I feel I've failed. I can be calm in a crisis, in the face of death or things that hurt badly. I don't get hysterical, which may be masochistic of me."

Emma Thompson

Born: April 15, 1959

Occupation: Actress

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Any problem, big or small, within a family, always seems to start with bad communication. Someone isn't listening.

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My worst quality is impatience.

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Tell him I mind having to look pretty, that's what I mind, because it is so much more of an effort.

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During an election, it's like they're doing my job: they're going around banging the drum for their party and selling their movie. You know, it's the same thing.

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I am who I am, and there is nothing I can do about that.

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